What actually defines destiny and how do we know if it actually destined? Maybe we put too much emphasis on what is going on and that it was meant to happen. There could be too much pressure for destiny. Especially if one says " Destined for greatness". Is destiny an instinct, a feeling or a state of completion?
One can say that they were destined to have children only to have them and find out that they weren't destined to parent. Can destiny be controversial and contradicting? One can also say that they are ready for what is destined only to find out that destiny doesn't really have a time table it just happens.